Last week, while I was on vacation, my mother, my daughter and I went to Pismo for an overnight getaway.
Wednesday night, we did the usual things you do in Pismo - had a nice seafood dinner, walked on the pier, ate ice cream and watched the skateboarders and a trick bicyclist. But we made sure we were back to our hotel room in time to catch the results show of American Idol.
When the two contestants who received the lowest number of votes were revealed, we were a little surprised, but not too worried. Rocker Chris Daughtry and crooner Katharine McPhee - "Don't worry," I told my mom. "Chris isn't going home."
Minutes later we were absolutely floored when Daughtry was sent packing. Many people, including the odds makers in Vegas, favored Daughtry to win the competition.
Our grieving continued the next morning. We listened as Meredith Vieira on "The View" wailed about the injustice of such a talented performer not making it to the finals.
But Star Jones quietly called Vieira on the carpet: "Did you vote?"
Just like in the bigger elections that shape our city and our nation's path, we can't complain about the outcome if we don't take part in the process. Do you vote? If not, don't complain about who's running things or how they do it.
And for the record, I voted.