
If everyone had a Jem, we'd all be more relaxed.
Those of you who know Jem as a folk singer probably are scratching your heads at that one. But I got to know him through massages at Whole Foods Market. When I want some quick pampering, Jem has been my go-to guy for years.
A visit goes something like this: He breaks into a smile and opens his arms for a big hug. Afterwards, he'll step back to scan the expression on my face and note my movement, looking for signs of illness or pain.
Jem: "How are you, my dear?"
Me: "My neck hurts/my back hurts/I'm on the verge of a cold/I have no energy/I just wanted a massage." (Those are the typical answers, anyway.)
Next thing I know, he's whipped up some aromatherapy according to my ailments, and we settle in for a good round of acupressure.
Now, I'm a huge fan of acupuncture, so acupressure is right up my alley. And I love that Jem switches things up according to what I need on any given day.
But our sessions are so much more. When I'm really tired, we'll fall silent, or he'll sing -- granted, a lot softer than in the photo below: